[BugFix] Support podLabels in FeProxy component

[ignatenkobrain]

Description

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the PR should include helm chart changes and operator changes.

Related Issue(s)

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Checklist

For operator, please complete the following checklist:

• run make generate to generate the code.
• run golangci-lint run to check the code style.
• run make test to run UT.
• run make manifests to update the yaml files of CRD.

For helm chart, please complete the following checklist:

• make sure you have updated the values.yaml
  file of starrocks chart.
• In scripts directory, run bash create-parent-chart-values.sh to update the values.yaml file of the parent
  chart( kube-starrocks chart).

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[yandongxiao]

@ignatenkobrain please sign the CLA

[ignatenkobrain]

@ignatenkobrain please sign the CLA

Done, sorry for delay.