feat(s2n-quic-dc): add acceptor events #5030

Job	Run time
env	4s
s2n-quic-qns (debug)	2m 33s
s2n-quic-qns (release)	6m 37s
h3spec (s2n-tls)	15s
perf (s2n-quic, s2n-quic)	1m 11s
perf (s2n-quic-null, s2n-quic-null)	1m 12s
attack (udp)	5m 28s
h3spec (rustls)	13s
bench	18m 8s
interop (aioquic, s2n-quic)	17m 15s
interop (chrome, s2n-quic)	5m 28s
interop (go-x-net, s2n-quic)	11m 46s
interop (kwik, s2n-quic)	14m 2s
interop (lsquic, s2n-quic)	12m 43s
interop (msquic, s2n-quic)	16m 44s
interop (mvfst, s2n-quic)	11m 36s
interop (neqo, s2n-quic)	14m 37s
interop (ngtcp2, s2n-quic)	14m 20s
interop (picoquic, s2n-quic)	16m 10s
interop (quic-go, s2n-quic)	12m 51s
interop (quiche, s2n-quic)	17m 3s
interop (quinn, s2n-quic)	14m 11s
interop (s2n-quic, aioquic)	14m 11s
interop (s2n-quic, go-x-net)	11m 10s
interop (s2n-quic, haproxy)	16m 0s
interop (s2n-quic, kwik)	12m 31s
interop (s2n-quic, lsquic)	11m 19s
interop (s2n-quic, msquic)	13m 50s
interop (s2n-quic, mvfst)	10m 15s
interop (s2n-quic, neqo)	12m 48s
interop (s2n-quic, nginx)	10m 40s
interop (s2n-quic, ngtcp2)	12m 43s
interop (s2n-quic, picoquic)	11m 56s
interop (s2n-quic, quic-go)	10m 54s
interop (s2n-quic, quiche)	12m 0s
interop (s2n-quic, quinn)	11m 59s
interop (s2n-quic, s2n-quic)	12m 7s
interop (s2n-quic, s2n-quic-rustls)	12m 5s
interop (s2n-quic, xquic)	5m 39s
interop (s2n-quic-rustls, s2n-quic)	12m 57s
interop (xquic, s2n-quic)	9m 50s
perf-report	17s
interop-report	26s
	7h 20m 4s

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