Upgrade ktlint-maven-plugin to 3.0.0 (bumps ktlint from 0.39.0 to 1.0.0

[ZzAve]

As a follow up of #96 , here we apply the changes correctly to master (missed it due to PR / rebase hell).

Feature

Improved ktlint handling:

• runs at verify phase (instead of compile)
• at default, only performs check
• format can be run with mvn ktlint:format@ktlint-format
• want to skip ktlint (and other quality steps)?: use -Dquality.skip

Bonus

Added 3 local build improvement flags (besides quality.skip):

• <gpg.skip>true</gpg.skip> - by default don't try to gpg sign the created jar in the verify step. Also, this doesn't work for everybody because gpg needs to be set up. Not needed for local development.
• <dokka.skip>true</dokka.skip> - by default, don't create a javaDocJar. This is only needed when doing a release (and maybe during CI, just for regression sake.
• <kotlin.compiler.incremental>true</kotlin.compiler.incremental> - don't compile stuff again, if you already have the results. The incremental compiler of kotlin allows you to run multiple mvn compile (or later phases like package or install) and reuse the classes in the target folder. This can speed up local builds with 20-30% easily.

I ran a benchmark for the dokka plugin with mvnd : mvnd clean install -Dmvnd.buildTime -Dsmartbuilder.profiling=true -Ddokka.skip=false, and surprise, this save about 60% compiler time (this is cumulative time spent per module, executions may have been done in parallel).

[INFO] ------------------------------------------------------------------------
[INFO]   dokka-maven-plugin:javadocJar (default) .................. [68,022s]
[INFO]   maven-surefire-plugin:test (default-test) ................ [31,496s]
[INFO]   kotlin-maven-plugin:compile (compile) .................... [10,864s]
[INFO]   kotlin-maven-plugin:test-compile (test-compile) .......... [3,195s]
[INFO]   ktlint-maven-plugin:check (ktlint-check) ................. [1,951s]
[INFO]   maven-clean-plugin:clean (default-clean) ................. [0,298s]
[INFO]   maven-jar-plugin:jar (default-jar) ....................... [0,267s]
[INFO]   maven-source-plugin:jar (attach-sources) ................. [0,217s]
[INFO]   maven-install-plugin:install (default-install) ........... [0,118s]
[INFO]   maven-jar-plugin:test-jar (default) ...................... [0,113s]
[INFO]   maven-compiler-plugin:compile (default-compile) .......... [0,048s]
[INFO]   maven-compiler-plugin:testCompile (default-testCompile) .. [0,028s]
[INFO]   maven-resources-plugin:resources (default-resources) ..... [0,024s]
[INFO]   graphql-simple-bindings-maven-plugin:generate (default) .. [0,018s]
[INFO]   maven-gpg-plugin:sign (sign-artifacts) ................... [0,018s]
[INFO]   build-helper-maven-plugin:add-source (add-source) ........ [0,013s]
[INFO]   maven-resources-plugin:testResources (default-testResource [0,010s]
[INFO]   build-helper-maven-plugin:add-resource (add-resource) .... [0,009s]
[INFO]   build-helper-maven-plugin:add-test-source (add-test-source [0,008s]