Use ServiceTrafficDistribution to make Services topology-aware when runtime Kubernetes >= 1.31

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/area networking
/area high-availability
/kind enhancement

What this PR does / why we need it:
See more details in gardener/gardener#10421 and gardener/gardener#11178.

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:
Part of gardener/gardener#10421

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Release note:

The [`ServiceTrafficDistribution`](https://kubernetes.io/docs/reference/networking/virtual-ips/#traffic-distribution) feature is being used on to make Services topology-aware when the runtime Kubernetes version is 1.31+.

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