refactor webhook patching logic

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Purpose of this PR

Refactoring the webhook patching logic to simplify patching functions
Fixes #2238

Proposed changes:

• Move common fields from DriverSpec and ExecutorSpec into SparkPodSpec
• Modify sparkPod defaulter to split validation and patching logic

Change Category

• Bugfix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• Feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that could affect existing functionality)
• Documentation update

Checklist

• I have conducted a self-review of my own code.
• I have updated documentation accordingly.
• I have added tests that prove my changes are effective or that my feature works.
• Existing unit tests pass locally with my changes.

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