DEP: Max pin glue to 1.21.1 in v4.1.x

[pllim]

Description

This pull request is to max pin glue-core in anticipation of #3238 . Also would fix devdeps. Only applies to v4.1.x backport branch as Ricky requested.

Change log entry

• Is a change log needed? If yes, is it added to CHANGES.rst? If you want to avoid merge conflicts,
  list the proposed change log here for review and add to CHANGES.rst before merge. If no, maintainer
  should add a no-changelog-entry-needed label.

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[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 88.08%. Comparing base (ae3063a) to head (fd6ac7c).
Report is 2 commits behind head on v4.1.x.

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##           v4.1.x    #3402      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   88.08%   88.08%   -0.01%     
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  Files         127      127              
  Lines       19595    19599       +4     
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+ Hits        17261    17263       +2     
- Misses       2334     2336       +2     

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[rosteen]

LGTM, thanks.